Retirement often has the effect of separating us from the community we know or that we have spent a lifetime building. The community we once had may no longer be in our lives, for whatever reason. And, as we age, many people experience a lessening desire to get out and meet people. If this is something you've experienced, you're not alone. You're also not alone in the feelings of loneliness and the awkward feeling that comes along with the realization that you need to find some friends. This can be a difficult proposition for some.
With that said, retirement can also be a time when we finally begin to take on new roles that our careers and families previously pushed to the backburner. There are some really fun and easy ways to find community at any age. For many, retirement presents an opportunity to spend time how you have always wanted. If you're looking to make new friends and find new communities now that you are retired, consider the following ideas!
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There are also many active clubs for retirees. The Elks Club, VFW, or GFWC are wonderful national organizations that can help connect you with others with similar interests. Your involvement in these organizations is often based on your available time and interest level. However, if giant national organizations aren't really for you, you may also consider joining a book club. Book clubs are a fantastic way to meet others and have fascinating conversations. They are also a great way to stay current on things happening in the world and connected to the cultural moment.
Writing circles are another great way to get connected and start writing that novel you've always dreamed of writing. As a person who enjoys writing, it can be difficult to find peers. Joining a writing circle is something you can do at any age, and it's something that will help remind you that you are, in fact, part of a community and have more to offer.
You are an important member of your community, and you can remind people of this by being present in the lives of others. There are many organizations in your area that can connect you with mentoring opportunities. Opportunities such as these may be offered through your past employer or school. You could mentor someone in a similar position, or they may come in the form of educational mentoring for young people. There are also many coaching opportunities for youth sports. Your experience makes you a vital member of any community. Share it.
However you come to it, and whatever form it takes, mentoring is extremely rewarding. You will meet and engage with people of all ages and, in many respects, share in the accomplishments of those you mentor.
Retirement and aging don't mean you have to live a life of boredom and isolation. In fact, this phase of life can be an incredible opportunity to spend your time in meaningful and social ways.
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